Be True to Your Authentic Self

Hey You, You're Still Beautiful

"I never felt this revolting sigh for myself. Like the rest of the world, I think I am beautiful, everyone around the globe (and maybe outside that too) is BEAUTIFUL."

But if Somebody, who matters to you the most, makes you realize that you ain't beautiful, it breaks you. Definitely it does. Should the other person know that (s)he has hurt your sentiments ?
What  if you tell em and they do it again to you ? Can you really Let-It-Go ?

Letting go words of those who are less important to you or you don't know much about em and vice versa is Easy and doesn't require much efforts; but when it comes to those who are closed to you, whom you love- your family members, your kins, or your friends. Difficult it is.

What Doesn't require much efforts - when the person is less important to you. Tough to be likewise to everyone, its hard to feel the same for everyone, you have priorities, you have a chart in your life that contains who-lies-where. One should try harder, put more efforts to Let-It-Go and Woah ! It won't be impossible.

Weaving my Life

I am noticing, I recently had been thinking like - What am I doing in this world? I practice many things; good things (mostly), living, but what exactly is my Motive in this world? I'd probably, well surely, will end-up one day.
-- What'd be left behind?  
-- Should there be anything left behind?

And realized- I am the creator of my Life. I can weave it the way I'd want it. I am happy with my loving family and friends; I wish to make em happy and smile. Not everyone on this Earth is lucky enough to have a life I am blessed with. Everyone has worries, tensions, curiosities for Future enticements

BUT

we tend to live with em; Live in the present.. give it a shot :) Open Your Arms & Accept What You Have Right Now.


"Oye, Kal ko marr Hi Jaana Hai ;)" Live Now and Do what makes you Happy. {Courtesy: Vandana Rai & Monika Sharma for this particular dialogue}



Source of Inspiration : http://tinybuddha.com/blog/4-things-id-say-anxiety-filled-younger-self/

Back to my 100% practice

I'm complaining about little things these days, which don't really matter to me- looks like something is bothering me, maybe it's somewhere back in my mind. And because if it, I cannot focus on the the current things, which are right here in front of me. I'm not giving my 100% to my present.

The point here is- I am realising that it is happening, hence the point I should decide to go right way and finding the solutions to my "bothering thing" and start giving my 100% to my present.
 Yeah :)

How Difficult it is to Adapt a Change

Feb 24,2016
Why am i thinking about it so badly ? And making my head to ache every single moment i think or talk about it.

With time , i have learnt this about myself- I'm never ready for changes, be it any kind of change, related to my attire, or my place, or any slight or major change in my life. I'm just not prepared for it. Few years ago, I used to adapt the change when it used take place, i wasn't prepared then also like today, but at least I could touch the changing situation and mould myself accordingly.
  With all the fear of the change changing me, still it wasn't that difficult for me.

Not So Wonderful

And here I am, distressed a bit, but as earlier I don't see feel wonderful -

"when I am low, emotionally; I am more active, more passionate towards my hobbies"

Well, this is another fall (or rise), yet unpredictable.

You Trust too Much

Being one of a kind, sometimes it's difficult to know whether I am trusting the right person or not.

According to a chinese proverb, "凡人不可貌相, 海水不可斗量 (fán rén bù kě mào xiàng, hǎi shuǐ bù kě dòu liàng) - As a man cannot be known by his looks, neither can the sea be fathomed by a gourd." (source: http://www.chinahighlights.com)

Judging a person by his appearance can take you in serious trouble. You tend to believe people with whatever they have to say, but most of the time we are ignorant to their intentions. It's not that they intend to harm you, or it may be there just to impress you. As we say- Do Well and Have Well, it cannot be always true though.
Thinking before trusting others, and by just giving a little time, one can definitely develop a strong relationship with others !

Reading Myself

I am noticing this interesting behavior in me; when I am low, emotionally; I am more active, more passionate towards my hobbies. Strange; Payback; Wonderful I feel !

 

My piece of poetry

I have something special for you,
It's not a gift wrapped-up in silver string,

Yet gracious enough to make you think. 

It's something you might have never expected, 

Yet I'm sure you'd be proud to have it ! 

What else than Love one longs for,

I'm sharing here a part of my parent, and that's worth more than a thousand crore !

He's my strength, my emotion and all I feel.. 

I promise he will love you too the way he loves & the way he heals. 

He has this immense love for his child which is not a lie, 

I bet you too will feel loved & secured under his eye !

http://allpoetry.com/PP-a_soul

You Know You're Angry

A very natural human behaviour- this is the thing we start to justify when we (or somebody) get angry over something we don't like. We tend to get angry if something doesn't go the way we want it to be, we get angry when we receive unpleasant behaviour from our close ones, and like these, there are many other things that bring out our behaviour with resentment.
I don't see any treatment for us to get over the anger we just got build up within our minds. Instead, we can realise the time we begin to start disliking the particular moment and start building the anger, who/what is the reason for it being caused in me?
So, who/what is making me angry? Nobody! The answer is simple, and I know it too! Nobody! It's me, nobody has control over my thoughts, nerves, or heart. I'm purely responsible for my thoughts, and particularly, here, my anger. So when can I stop it to hit me, at the very point I feel it in me.

Trying to read myself if I am in that situation somewhere, and will not let it build up to hurt myself and feel the glory of being anger-less at moments! Kudos

A comeback post !

How did i just forget to write ? I have been living a very simple and smooth life lately, somewhat got busy working, and family things. This little piece here is just to wake myself and call my writing function again! "Always do what you believe is right for you. Eventually, unfaltering, you're answerable to yourself in this world."

How Do You See God ?

Who is God to you? what strikes your mind when you say God?

I will NOT fall..?

I will not fall for things in my life...this is what i have always believed.
But an incidence happened to me last week, I was very sure before it, I bear a charmed life, "let it avail what it may, come what may". Things were like that..but i was actually the one who couldn't digest the moment..the truth..and i fell. And the point of me stating the clouded incidence is that I didn't want to overcome the situation, i couldn't take it that life can be the other way..other than the charmed one. Still figuring out..do i really want to overcome the situation?
Now my limited followers, you may share your such incidences which showed you the different phases of your life..where you found yourself helpless..

How we define a Human:

The word 'Human' is commonly defined as,
any living or extinct member of the family Hominidae.
OR relating to a person.
But i would wish to differentiate with the respective definition....
Human is a being which has a soul... nd the basic components of a human, which put it in a motion, are LOVE AND PEACE. If you have these components inside YOU, you are a living soul else you are just a body who is falling, arising, getting affected, crying, laughing depending on other bodies(apart from soul).

So here is the definition from this soul (btw this soul's name is Pallavi...:) ), now this discussion and derived divisions will be continued... WELCOME TO MY BLOG :)